Who gets to say what normal is??

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Life is a crazy, hectic, amazing miracle!! Every single one of us is different in so many ways, yet we are always compared to each other.  This is something I have never understood.
 What I consider normal may be totally different from what my next door neighbor considers normal  (and oh believe me, it truly is!! Lol)

Yet society compares us anyway. People treat others cruely if they dont stand up to their expectations,  or if they dont act a certain way. Even children now a days can be cruel because of learning things at home. For instance, a little girl in my 1st grade daughters class told my daughters friend, while they were in daycare together, that my child is fat.  The next day he came in and told my child what the little girl said. Luckily my kids know that they are perfect the way they are and it didnt bother her as much as it could have.

My point being who gets to decide these things?? "Society" has such a disgusting view on some things, and "society" says that this is right, or this is not.

Well I have never followed the rules of society.  I have always been one to speak my mind, be who I am no matter who likes me, and I will always raise my children to do the same.

Nobody has the right to decide what "Normal" means. You decide for yourself what is YOUR normal!!! Live your normal, and if people dont like you for who you are, then they never liked you for you to begin with, so they dont deserve you!!!


"Today, you are YOU
That is truer than TRUE
There is no one alive who is you-er than YOU! ~Dr. Seuss

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